Recognise signs of discomfort
Turning away, lip licking, yawning, a tucked tail, freezing or trying to hide can indicate that a dog is uncomfortable. Growling is useful information that the dog needs space; do not punish warning signals.
Give your dog room to choose
Ask visitors to avoid leaning over, reaching toward or staring directly at the dog. Provide a quiet retreat and allow your dog to approach only if it wants to. Use gates or a separate room when needed.
Build positive associations at a safe distance
Let your dog notice a person from far enough away that it can still eat, explore and respond to you. Pair the sight of the person with high-value treats. Keep sessions brief and increase closeness only when the dog remains comfortable.
Avoid forced greetings
Do not hold your dog in place for petting or take it into crowded situations to “get used to it.” Repeated overwhelming experiences can make fear worse. Progress should be gradual and led by the dog’s comfort.
Know when to get support
If fear is intense, worsening or accompanied by snapping or biting, consult your veterinarian and a qualified force-free behaviour professional. Pain and illness can also affect behaviour.
Final thoughts
Safety, patience and choice are the foundations of confidence-building. The goal is not for every dog to greet everyone, but for the dog to feel safe and cope comfortably.
